Relationships

Networking is Not a Dirty Word

Networking is Not a Dirty Word

Many of my career coaching clients cringe at the word “networking.” But I think networking gets a bad rap. When undertaken in the right spirit, building relationships can be fun as well as helpful. And you don’t have to be Keith Ferrazi to do it.

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Thanks, Moms!

Thanks, Moms!

Here's a shout out to all the stay-at-home moms (and dads) out there – thank you for all you do, not just for your own kids but for my kids too. I am writing this from my hotel room in Pt. Reyes, California where I am staying for a client off-site retreat that Leigh...

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How Much is Enough?

How Much is Enough?

Money. We all need it, and daily we make decisions large and small about how to use it. We are constantly bombarded with news of the economy, and many of us have definite opinions about the local, national, and world economies. But when it comes to personal finances,...

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Five Tips for When the Parenting Honeymoon is Over

Five Tips for When the Parenting Honeymoon is Over

What do we do when the first bloom of parenthood wears off and reality sets in? In marriage, it is called the "seven year itch," when many a husband or wife tires of the reality of life with their spouse. But this experience is not limited to marital partners, says ...

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In Praise of Partnership*

In Praise of Partnership*

  I'm not sure when "partner" became a verb, and truth be told, my inner lexicographer probably winced the first few times I heard it. But now I have adopted it whole-heartedly. So much so that today I partnered with a terrific coach and consultant, Leigh Marz,...

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Showing Up

Showing Up

  Woody Allen famously said that “eighty percent of success is showing up.” But sometimes showing up is more than eighty percent – it's the whole ball game. This past week tragedy struck my husband's family when his younger cousin James died suddenly, devastating...

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The 69%

The 69%

  It turns out that 69% of marital conflicts are perpetual. Yup. Sixty. Nine. Percent. This is true for even the most successful, happy marriages. The first time I heard this statistic, I found it utterly discouraging to think that the vast majority of areas of...

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Getting to 50/50

Getting to 50/50

  How many women and men in their 30s and 40s thought they were going to have an "equal partnership" marriage and then found that it was not as easy as they thought, especially once kids entered the picture? Finding balance in your marriage can be tricky,...

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Money in the Bank

Money in the Bank

  For any relationship to thrive, the positive must outweigh the negative. Sounds pretty obvious, even commonplace, doesn't it? But what follows from it is not always recognized. Most people who want to improve a relationship focus on trying to fix the negative...

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